From Kathryn Dolan

You asked for memories of your mom and I would like to share a few. I found a french language book once at your house and asked your mom about it. She spent time talking to me about the challenges of learning a new language and how interesting it is to visit a different country. I remember thinking how exciting her life was and thought it was nice how she encouraged me to continue pursuing a foreign language, even though it was tough.

Another time you had a bunch of us over to watch a movie. She made popcorn and food for us and talked with us about school. She prodded you a few times to offer to get us something to drink. I think you were annoyed that us feminists could get our own drinks! But she gently said, "Johnny, do your guests want something else?" I laugh thinking about it now.

There was a dance we all went to--Joe, Mitschke, Heather, Annika, you, me and Mike Hammond. We met at your house and your mom took lots of pictures. I still have one. She's not in it--but I remember her telling all the girls how nice we looked. She set us up in your living room and then told us to have fun.

These are all simple memories, regular everyday happenings and may seem insignificant. But when reflecting, it occurs to me your mom was just always there. She was happy to be involved in your life, know your friends, and welcome them into your home. It's a loving parent that not everyone has. I can't offer advice on how to deal with such a loss. But I can say your mom was a wonderful person who raised two very kind and intelligent guys. I am sure you would credit her with much of your success. She deserves that praise because it was clear how much she loved you and José and how devoted she was to your happiness.